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 « Il faut préciser qu’il y a 35 ans, quand une femme prenait la parole en public, la moitié masculine de l’assistance ne s’en souciait guère. »

– Ginette Noiseux, directrice artistique de l’Espace Go,

théâtre caractérisé par la contribution des femmes à ses créations.

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Il n’y a pas d’école pour apprendre à militer. L’éducation n’encourage que l’obéissance aveugle, aucunement un esprit critique perspicace et perçant. Définitivement pas une critique féminine.

Simultanément à ma carrière d’actrice de cinéma et de théâtre (pendant laquelle j’ai été demandée trop souvent à personnifier les victimes d’actes machistes et violents au niveau psychologique et/ou physique, tout comme j’ai délibérément joué les femmes battues ou violées, les travailleuses du sexe, les esclaves sexuelles ou les blondes sexy sans aucune personnalité), j’ai poursuivi une formation de gestionnaire artistique au HEC Montréal, complétée ce printemps 2016. Pendant mes études et mon travail artistique, je suis devenue maman d’un garçon et je me suis totalement consacrée à un militantisme radical défendant les droits des femmes.

Je suis devenue une figure publique et une porte-parole établie pour l’organisation la plus controversée au niveau international : FEMEN. Ce dévouement militant m’a apporté beaucoup de respect de la part de la population, voir même une popularité. Cependant, mon engagement m’a apporté une pauvreté pire que celui d’une artiste et aussi beaucoup de haine et de représailles de la part des hommes, de certains politiciens et politiciennes, de certains journalistes, de certaines féministes et certaines travailleuses du sexe. En ce qui concerne les hommes, sans haïr la population masculine comme certains médias le présentent, je défends leurs droits tout aussi comme je défends les droits des immigrants, des autochtones, des minorités visibles et toute personne qui est victime de toute forme d’injustice, de discrimination et de violence.

Je n’ai rien à tirer de ce combat que je mène pour moi et pour toutes celles qui doivent se taire. Je ne travaille pas pour personne et je ne suis pas payée par personne. FEMEN a toujours été une organisation indépendante et se bat pour préserver son âme. Toutes les branches sont auto-structurées et fonctionnent sans une structure hiérarchique. Par contre, il ne faut jamais oublier qu’officiellement le brand FEMEN appartient à Anna Hutsol. Comme il ne faut pas effacer les pas historiques fait par Oxana Shachko (créatrice de l’imagerie visuelle et première à protester topless), Sasha Shevchenko (première porte-parole), Iana Zhdanova (une des militantes les plus féroces), Tatyana Zacerkovnaya, Евгения Крайзман, Iryna Serbina, Аня Алляйн et d’autres femmes dans l’ombre. La contribution d’Inna Shevchenko (leader de Femen France) a été extraordinaire, mais FEMEN ne se résume pas à la définition qu’elle lui donne. FEMEN se vit devant les caméras et dans les coulisses, dans le sommeil et dans tous les périples de la vie.

Un sujet nous a toujours donné des maux de tête et des maux de ventre. Ce sujet est la raison principale des multiples discordes idéologiques à l’intérieur du mouvement national et international et je me suis dédiée à une étude approfondie de ce tabou contemporain : le sexe tarifié.

FEMEN se positionne contre l’industrie du sexe. Mais comment expliquer ce que ça veut dire concrètement? Qu’est-ce que l’industrie du sexe? Pour me solidifier dans ma recherche, j’ai étudié en Nouvelles Formes de Communication Médiatique et Nouvelles Approches Journalistiques me spécialisant en journalisme d’enquête dans mon pays d’origine, l’Ukraine. Par la suite, je me suis dédiée à une observation sur le terrain. Utilisant mes nouvelles aptitudes d’apprentie journaliste, j’ai commencé à écrire le scénario de mon court-métrage ainsi que des multiples versions d’un canevas de long-métrage à l’aide de plusieurs collaborateurs et collaboratrices fortement intéressés par le paradoxe des femmes résistant et se soumettant aux lois patriarcales. Pour affirmer ma pensée idéologique, je suis allée dans la ville de New York pour étudier en féminisme et sexualité à Columbia University avec des féministes réputées de partout dans le monde, études organisées par Brooklyn Institute of Social Research.

En enquêtant sur la vie intime et professionnelle des travailleuses du sexe pendant plus de 3 ans, ma conclusion se résume au simple fait qu’absolument aucune avancée n’a été fait dans la liberté féminine de prendre parole en ce qui concerne son auto-détermination sexuelle dans la sphère publique, voir même personnelle.

Tous les problèmes que j’ai rencontré pendant ma persévérance à écrire, réaliser et produire mon film m’ont prouvé la peur de cette auto-détermination féminine. J’ai réalisé à quel point c’est important qu’une parole féminine interdite sorte de son ombre et j’ai tout simplement trouvé une brèche pour agir dans le style sextrémiste pour démasquer ce que l’on nous cache aux citoyens et dire la vérité sur l’industrie du sexe sans accuser personne sauf les vrais criminels qui ne sont ni les travailleuses du sexe ni les clients ni même ceux qu’on définit comme pimps.

Le sextrémisme, c’est la sexualité féminine qui se rebelle contre le patriarcat par des actions politiques frontales et radicales. Le sextrémisme se bat contre une vision de la sexualité dominée par les hommes. Les lois sur la prostitution ne condamnent ni la discrimination ni les sevices. L’hypocrisie politique, la désinformation enracinée, l’ignorance, la défense psychique, la peur du stigma du mot PUTE et l’allégeance aux intérêts dominants sont des barrières à parler ouvertement de dynamiques prostitutionnelles dans nos sociétés et sont la racine même du contrôle discriminatoire des femmes.

FEMEN est à la frontière du paradoxe: ce paradigme du service ou du sacrifice du côté des femmes et du paiement et du bon droit du côté des hommes. (tiré du Prisme de la Prostitution)

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TROIS ORGANISME sur la même ligne de front?

  • La Concertation des luttes contre l’exploitation sexuelle (CLES)
  • L’organisme communautaire ayant pour but de soutenir les travailleuses du sexe afin que celles-ci puissent vivre et travailler en sécurité et avec dignité (STELLA)
  • Le mouvement révolutionnaire qui se bat contre les dictatures, les institutions religieuses et l’industrie du sexe (FEMEN)

Merci Mélanie Carpentier, fondatrice de LA MAISON DE MÉLANIE, un organisme aux valeurs féministes et humanistes, qui a pour mission l’aide directe, neutre et efficace auprès des victimes de la traite humaine à des fins d’exploitation sexuelle. Nous favorisons la réinsertion sociale des victimes en leur offrant des services de consultation et d’éducation liés à leurs droits et de l’accompagnement dans leurs démarches judiciaires.

*PUTE* est un mot qui BLESSE toutes les femmes.

Articles à lire:

1 – Sur le premier procès de FEMEN au CANADA:

Après nos actions contre la prostitution au Grand Prix en 2014 et 2015, une militante été accusée d’action indécente: une «action inappropriée qui excède le seuil de tolérance de la société».

2 – Sur l’arrestation américaine de la fondatrice de FEMEN QUÉBEC:

Traduction française: L’ex-dirigeante de Femen Québec et porte-parole de Femen Canada, Kseniya Chernyshova (nom professionnel Xenia Sin), artiste pluridisciplinaire ainsi que consultante en marketing pour une organisation qui aide les victimes d’exploitation sexuelle, La Maison de Mélanie, a été arrêté le 11 novembre 2016 dans la ville de New York. Xenia a passé 24 heures en prison, son argent personnel et son téléphone sont toujours confisqués. Elle a été prise violemment par la police tout en travaillant sur son docu-fiction autoproduit indépendant appelé Political Playgirl (en français Reine et Ruine), un film craint par le lobby pro-sexe et jugé comme une promotion de la prostitution par les abolitionnistes. Xenia voit son scénario comme une autre injustice pour les femmes et les gens en général. En vertu de la loi de New York, elle a été soupçonnée d’être coupable de prostitution. Xenia nie toutes les accusations et a été libérée le 12 novembre 2016. Elle a été laissé avec seulement un billet de dollar sur lequel elle a écrit le slogan officiel de Femen: CHAQUE FEMME EST UNE RÉVOLTE et 7 $ dollars fournis par son avocate, Danielle Von Lehman. Xenia est obligée de comparaître à la Cour le 12-06-16 à 9h30 au 314 West 54th St, NY. Les travailleuses du sexe et les féministes universitaires seront présentes à la Cour pour soutenir Xenia Sin dans le combat de toute femme pour la dignité et le respect de soi-même. Toutes les femmes sont invitées à se joindre à elles pour assister à un procès historique.

*L’argent et le téléphone ont été remis à Xenia le 25 novembre 2016.

A STRAIGHT TALK ABOUT SEXTREMISM

A straight talk with the founder of FEMEN in North America – Xenia Sin (Chernyshova) for frenchspeaking audience.  

  1. What is the difference between sextremism and feminism
  2. How #FEMEN became the creators of a new contemporary art and why they are the followers of the Artistic Actionism?
  3. Why a « slavic blond girl » is automatically related to prostitution?
  4. Why the collapse of the Soviet Union contributed to the massive exploitation of female sexuality?
  5. Why sextremism is a phenomenon that has inspired new movements such as #SlutWalk and #FreeTheNipple?
  6. Why Femen wishes for women to rise up from an historical lethargyin other words from a painful condition of women’s humiliation?
  7. Why do different patriarchal religions destroyed the « sacred feminine »?
  8. Why showing your breasts in a movie or in porn – becomes the path to glory, but showing your boobs for political ideas and social change – makes you automatically a social outcast?
  9. Why do men have the right to have sex, but women only to sell or give their sexual consent?
  10. Why female sexuality is used as the manner of stigmatizing women? 

Xenia addresses all these issues as well as the questions about faith, women in immigration, the collapse of family values, the sentimental independance and the reason why sextremism is the philosophy that could unite all women as a way of empowerment and a possible way to take back their sexuality.

ARTIVIST MANIFESTO

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I am signaling you through the flames.

Civilization self-destructs.

What are artivists for, in such an age?

What is the use of art?

If you would be an artivist, create works capable of answering the challenge of apocalyptic times, even if this means sounding apocalyptic.

If you call yourself an artivist, don’t just sit there. Art is not a sedentary occupation, not a take your seat practice. Stand up and let them have it.

And the people, the people, yes, all around the earth, speaking Babel tongues. Give voice to them all.

If you would be an artivist, speak new truths that the world can’t deny.

Make it new news.

Write beyond time.

Reinvent the idea of truth.

Reinvent the idea of beauty.

Be subversive, constantly questioning reality and the status quo.

Strive to change the world in such a way that there’s no further need to be a dissident.

Hip Hop and Rap your way to liberation.

Read between the lives and write between the lines.

Your images in a poem should be jamais vu, not déjà vu.

Words can save you where guns can’t.

Reinvent America and the world.

Climb the Statue of Liberty.

Mistrust metaphysics, trust in the imagination and re-fertilize it.

Instead of trying to escape reality, plunge into the flesh of the world.

Give a voice to the tongueless street.

Make common words uncommon.

Poet, be God’s spy, if God exists.

Painter, paint his eye, if He has one.

Be an eye among the blind.

Be naive, non-cynical, as if you had just landed on earth, astonished by what you have fallen upon.

Like a Buddhist, listen to your own breathing.

Think long thoughts in short sentences.

If an action has to be explicated, it’s a failure in communication.

Whatever an artivist says about his/her work is an apology he/she shouldn’t make.

No ideas but in the senses. Nihil in intellectu quod non prius in sensu.

If you would be a great artist, associate with thinking activists. They’re hard to find.

Haunt bookstores.

Don’t be so open-minded that your brains fall out.

Sweep away the cobwebs.

Cultivate dissidence and critical thinking. First thought may be worst thought.

Resist much, obey less.

Challenge capitalism masquerading as democracy.

Challenge all political creeds, including radical populism and hooligan socialism.

Exceed everyone’s great expectations and hack prophecies.

Glory in the pessimism of the intellect and the optimism of the will.

Express the inexpressible.

Be also a rooster, waking up the world.

Don’t blow bubbles of despair.

Generate collective joy in the face of collective gloom.

Secretly liberate any being you see in a cage.

Enrage despots.

Stand up for the stupid and crazy.

Be a wolf in the sheepfold of silence.

Don’t let them tell you art is bullshit.

Have a good laugh at those who tell you activists are mistifs or potential terrorists and a danger to the state.

Don’t let them tell you art is a neurosis that some people never out-grow.

Don’t ever believe art is irrelevant in dark times.

Don’t let them tell you artists and activists are parasiti.

Don’t believe them when they tell you nobody buys the penny stock of poetry in the stock market of our casino culture.

Mock those who tell you you’re living in a dream world. Dream your own reality. Camp out ont the shores of reality.

Dare to be a non-violent poetic guerilla, an anti-hero.

Temper your most intemperate voice with compassion.

Remember that men & women are infinitely ecstatic, infinetely suffering beings.

Don’t destroy the world unless you have something better to replace it.

Be commited to something outside yourself.

Be passionate about it.

If you would snatch fame from the flames, where is your burning bow, where your arrows of desire, where your wit on fire?

The master class starts wars; the lower classes fight them. Governements lie. The voice of the governement is often not the voice of the people.

SPEAK UP. ACT OUT. SILENCE IS COMPLICITY.

WAKE UP, THE WORLD’S ON FIRE!

Have a nice day.

-a new version of Lawrence Ferlinghetti populist manifesto

Poetry as INSURGENT ART

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PENETRATING THE WORLD

IF YOU CHOOSE TO LOVE AN AWAKENED WOMAN

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If you choose to love an awakened woman, understand that you are entering into new, radical and challenging territory.

If you choose to love an awakened woman, you cannot stay asleep.

If you choose to love an awakened woman, every part of your Soul will be aroused, not just your sexual organs or even your heart.

Frankly, if you prefer a normal life, stick with a normal girl.

If you want a tame life, seek only a woman who has allowed herself to be tamed.

If you only want to dip your toe into the flowing waters of Shakti, stay with the safe, tamed woman who has not yet plunged into the wildness of the Sacred Feminine ocean.

It is comfortable to love a woman who has not yet activated her inner sacred powers, because she does not push your buttons.

She will not challenge you.

She will not press you into becoming your highest Self.

She will not awaken the forgotten and numbed-out parts of your Spirit that urge you to remember that there is more to your Life here than this.

She will not look into your weary eyes and send a lightning bolt of Truth through your body, jolting you awake and stirring long-lost desires for Soul Love within you.

A safe, unawakened woman will be wonderfully satisfying and soothing to your ego, heart, and body. She will walk quietly beside you and make you feel needed, responsible, like you are fulfilling your manly role.

If this is enough for you then accept it, love her with all your heart, remain faithful to her and thank her daily for the gift of her mild, unthreatening feminine presence in your life.

If this is not enough for you – if your heart, body and spirit is only craving the ‘other kind of woman’, the Wild One – then know that you are on the cusp of Soul-Shifting transformation.

Know that you are making a serious choice with karmic consequences.

If you choose to step into the aura and body of a woman whose spiritual fires are blazing, you are accepting that you need a certain level of danger and risk in order to grow.

Once you begin to love a woman of this nature, you must accept total responsibility for the life-changes that will then ensue.

Your life will not be sleepily comfortable all the time. Your life will not allow you to stay stuck in old ruts and stagnant routines. Your life will take on a radically-new flavour and scent. You will be ignited by the presence of the Wild Feminine, and it will begin to send electric shockwaves of spiritual Light through your entire chakra system, attuning you to the Call of the Divine.

Choosing to be sexually and romantically-intimate with an awakened woman takes masculine courage to walk fearlessly into the Unknown. But it will reap rewards beyond your mind’s comprehension.

She will take you into undiscovered worlds of mystery and magic.

She will lead you, mesmerised and half-drunk with love, into the wild forests of sensual ecstasy and wonder.

She will show you sacred skies so full and burning with stars that you will start to wonder if you are still living on the same planet that you were born on.

She will break and tear you open so that your fierce, passionate heart drives you half-mad with longing. You will want to consume and penetrate her on every level so that your Masculine Essence can consume and penetrate the world – illuminating the Universe with your devoted Love.

She will see you like you’ve never been seen before.

She will trust you.

She will appreciate you.

She will acknowledge your efforts to make her happy.

She will value everything good that you do, and everything good that you are.

She will not run from your darkness, because your darkness does not scare her.

She will embrace, kiss, caress and love you back to Life. She will speak words that your Soul understands. She will not punish you for your mistakes.

It is a monumental risk to love an awakened woman, because there is suddenly no place to hide. She sees everything, therefore she can love you with a depth and presence that your heart and body have yearned for so hard, so long, so fiercely…that you wonder whether you have actually been alive for all the time that she has been away.

Loving a woman like this is a choice you make to start living with your Soul on fire.

Your life will never be the same again once you’ve invited her energy in.

Take this risk on yourself, or step back, stay with the normal girl and accept a different, safer, more comfortable and somewhat calmer life.

Just make sure that if you choose the latter, you don’t spend the rest of your days with your eyes looking back over your shoulder, straining to see once again the hazy vision of Feminine Mystery that has now disappeared from view.

She has long gone..spiralling back up to the Stars, the distant Galaxies and the Heavens…from where She came.

~Sophie Bashford

YOU BLOCKED ME ON FACEBOOK ;)

Xenia Sin wrote on 12th of October 2016:

Just to let everybody know: my facebook will be eventually closed. Probably. Those who commit crimes will block me. That’s the game they play: making people shut up. Freedom of expression doesn’t exist. Only if it works for a political hidden agenda that will help out somebody who already has all the power. Censorship is always a ghost for every artist. If you judge my posts, you chose the wrong target. I’m only a messanger. Don’t shoot the ONE who brings you information. I talk publicly about sex industry. As an activist, as a mother, as an artist, I have the right to show you what you don’t want to see. Hypocrasy is not my value. So, if you follow me remember this: FEAR IS ILLEGAL and EVERY WOMAN IS A RIOT. #xfemen#pinkghetto #givingupisnotanoption #sextremism #feminism #riot #sexism

Men, please remember the women you loved or paid to love/fuck them. Please do this for the society. Please remember what men do TO women and what women do FOR men. The difference might be there in this naked war that #femen started to expose. I think that as #men you have enough #wisdom and a fucking brain that can guide you to feel the reality of the situation.

Political Playgirl is not a movie about lust or sex or politics. The project has a simple goal: explore a new form of porn art that could change men’s and women’s attitudes in their sexual experiences at their deepest neurobiological level. At the end of the day, you will just come harder but with respect. #stella #sexwork #sexisnotacrime #whoreactivism

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POLITICAL PLAYGIRL

POLITICAL PLAYGIRL is a fiction based on the true story of an Anonymous hacker who is forced to sell her sexual services. 

Her fight and her paradox is to survive in a world that is totally WHOREPHOBIC, yet completely WHOREPHILE.

The movie was shot and produced in very risky circumstances in Montreal and New York. The director, Xenia Sin, the creator of FEMEN in North America, did an undercover job in order to infiltrate the sex industry, high-class escorting services, middle class prostitution and very dangerous gang infiltration in Canada and United States.

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  • The short-film tells the fight of a stubborn erotic performer from New York City: ROXANNE PARÉE. Spiritual and deeply political, she tries to win her one and only lover back, the father of her son and ex-member of MS-13 gang. It’s a story of a poor young woman who everybody wants to have sex with, but nobody cares about.
  • She tries to change the sex industry system, one john at a time. She sleeps with her political ennemies trying to reach their hearts. Ironically, her clients treat her better than the man of her dreams and the father of her child.
  • Her key to freedom and joy is disobedience in every aspect of her life. Sex for her is a common prayer and she searches for respect. Even if prostitution is an everyday oppression for her body and soul, she uses her sexual skills to gain more power and dignity.

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  • The story of Roxanne Parée articulates the struggle, the anger and the beliefs of many WHORES around the world. Sex business is not only about making money out of women sex-appeal or nudity, but also about putting the BLAME on women. Being topless, stripping, gogo dancing or having sex for money becomes something DIRTY and NASTY, in one word: BAD. People want to BUY what is forbidden, shameful and BAD. People judge and still consume, which is a paradoxe.
  • Your donation can really make this story come to screen and spread some truth/transparency about sex work. Social crowd funding is a new way to promote and finance art by staying independent and preserve an artist’s creative freedom.

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  • The movie was shot in October in New York City during the political american debate between Clinton and Trump with a new technological system (Camera DJI OSMO x5r), with non-professional actors (except the lead actress) in a guerrila style filmmaking.
  • The shooting of the short-film was produced by sex workers and clients, also by Joe Marrano, a construction worker based in New York City and by two crowd-funding campaigns.

https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/reine-et-ruine-sex-art#/

https://www.kisskissbankbank.com/fr/projects/political-playgirl

  • The XFEMEN PRODUCTIONS company still needs money for the post-production needs. Your donation will give you a unique opportunity to participate in a one of a kind project that is made to support an organisation that helps women and men recover after sexual slavery and sexual abuse experiences. The organisation is based in Montreal: La maison de Mélanie. It was created by Mélanie Carpentier, the writer of I WAS A SEX SLAVE autobiography. More information here (in french):

https://montreal157.wordpress.com/2013/02/24/esclave-sexuelle/

The movie is dedicated to all women who perform erotic labour:

For Tina, Juna, Leilah, Daniella, Ivanna.

To all women who survived:

For Mélanie Carpentier.

To all women who killed themselves:

For Nelly Arcan.

To all women who became an inspiration:

For Yana Zhdanova and Crystal Brooks.

… and to all women who fuck the system…

For Roxanne Parée.

… and specially for all moms who need to work as sex providers aroud the world in order to feed the baby… this short-film is for you…

FEAR IS ILLEGAL, babes. 😉

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THE DREAMGIRL

The Dreamgirl doesn’t exist, cause nobody loves her. She is what we call her: a DREAM.

One day, I met a dreamgirl, a wonderful smart woman who lost the custody of her child because she needed to work as a GOGO DANCER and as a PLAYBOY MODEL after her painful divorce with the man she loved. I don’t want to describe her, cause she can speak up for herself. My only wish would be that more women and men would listen to her, instead of ignoring her or jerk off on her photos.

I asked her simple questions based on the question I ask to any woman who is a feminist, a sextremist, a stripper or a sex worker. It starts with: As a PLAYBOY MODEL and as a GOGO DANCER, what did you learn:

  1. on YOURSELF
    I learned that most if not all people don’t accept it. It’s looked down upon. On the other hand the ones that do, just want to hear the stories and take you at face value. Your labelled, and in this day in age, it follows you. It is also powerful, your looked at differently, which as it’s pros and cons. Men are scared of you and women don’t want you anywhere around you. But when you walk on that stage and you really don’t care what people think and just perform, either on a photo shoot or stage it’s freeing. To do what you love is peace. 
  2. on MEN
    Lol I haven’t learn much about men, to me 99.99 % would NOT want to date a playboy or a go go dancer. They like the thought about it or the fantasy of it, but that’s about it. Your not looked on as a person but as object. 
  3. on WOMEN
    With women it can go either way, when I was a go go dancer I’ve never had a problem, many applauded my bravery. 
  4. on MONEY
    The modelling world is not for anyone that wants a steady pay check! It’s a hard industry, go go dancing was easy once I was in shape and if the economy is good, it can be a fairly good job to make ends meet. The night life is hard, and I found to be living vampire hours. 
  5. on SELF-DEFENSE
    One has to use common sense, if it doesn’t feel right trust your gut. I only worked with photographers that were recommended or I met before a shoot and I trusted my gut. Working as a go go dancer was safe, the clubs had rules, and security. Again common sense, be aware of your surroundings and watch and make sure your never followed. 
  6. on HEALTH
    I’ve almost always been thin so I didn’t have to workout out, I’m one of the lucky ones. I’ve always accepted that I’m not perfect and in knowing that there’s always photo shop to fix imperfections.
  7. on PREJUDICE
    Of course this will always exist, everyone judges, if your not hurting yourself or other, live and let live…
  8. on SEX
    Well sex, myself I always wanted to be in a relationship before. But sometimes it’s hard to find someone that would accept you and sees you as you and not an object. So I myself am waiting to find someone I can get to know, I’m still waiting… 
  9. on LOVE and AFFECTION RELATIONSHIPS
    I’ve been single for 5 years, no relationships, is this because of playboy? Maybe maybe not. It’s ones choice to reveal what you want. Myself I try to keep that part of my life hidden, I haven’t gotten great reviews.
  10. on AGING
    I became playboy miss social pretty late on my life, I was 33. I’ve never had plastic surgery, and am fine with aging. At the end of the day it how you treat people that makes them like you, and if they don’t because you have a wrinkle then you probably don’t need to be their friend in the first place. 

    What would you like to say to younger women? 
    Be careful what you post on social media, it’s there forever, and don’t use your real name. If you chose to get into the industry chances are you won’t be there forever and you don’t want your future bosses googling you! 
    What would you like to say to older women? 
    With age comes wisdom, and a wise woman makes herself happy, after that then is when she’s strong to look after everyone else in her lives. And it’s never too late to dream. 
    What would you like to say to younger men? 
    Don’t push away the ones that really care for you for the fantasy, cause the fantasy isn’t real. Were all just people trying to survive.
    What would you like to say to olden men? 
    The young girl isn’t going to make you feel alive, you already are.

 

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I KNOW THE GAME, BABE

 

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I’m an actress. I observe and I play. This is my profession.

Also, I fight for women’s rights and analyze human behaviour.

I’m submitted on one side.

I’m indomitable on the other.

I’m blocked on my path.

Because I do not fit the norm.

Being different made me see this one particular fact:

You can’t divide women in two.

Society does.

Mothers and Whores.

Virgins and Sluts.

Young and Old.

Subservient and Useless.

Beautiful and Ugly.

Wifes and Illicit Lovers.

Angels and Witches.

Normal Women and Feminists.

Good Girls and Bad Girls.

You can’t divide women.

Nobody is perfect.

PERIOD.

Unfortunately, it’s necessary to devide us (women) to maintain the system.

Patriarchy and Phallocraty designed it this way.

Play by the rules, Choose your role or Be Out of the game.

Guards are watching your every single step in this game.

Mothers, sisters and girlfriends will tell you how to behave to survive in this men’s world.

Fathers, brothers and boyfriends will punish you for your every independent step.

THE GAME IS CRUEL. IT’S A BLOODY SHOW. Just the way men like it. IT’S A NAKED WAR.

Tragically, it’s all about who will dominate who.

Who will FUCK who?

Tell me, babe.

XXX

I will also divide women.

I can be a patriarch too.

I will devide them not in two, but in four.

Just to complicate things better.

I see FOUR types of women:

1 – The Ones who OBEY to the rules of the GAME.

2- The Ones who COMPROMISE and NEGOCIATE with the SYSTEM.

3- The Ones who USE, who MANIPULATE, who PLAY with this SETUP.

4- The Ones who RESIST and FIGHT this illogical and unfair ORDER who only serves those who already have the power and a free choice of being in control of their GAME.

I learned all this in one special professional field: SEX INDUSTRY.

THE ULTIMATE GAME OF POWER.

I decided to TALK ABOUT IT.

I decide to create this one of a kind project: POLITICAL PLAYGIRL.

POLITICAL PLAYGIRL is programmed to be a REVOLUTION in this phallocratic game.

IN and OUTSIDE of the SEX INDUSTRY.

I know it’s not something that the system wants me to spread.

I know it will make an impact.

My only goal is to obtain (even if it will take my blood, sweat and tears) the unopposable respect towards women who PERFORM EROTIC LABOUR.  Meaning ALL WOMEN.

ALL OF US do it one way or another.

So, in one sentence:

RESPECT PEOPLE YOU FUCK.

XXX

POLITICAL PLAYGIRL:

It’s a project that follows a sextremist ideology and a new contemporary philosophy that seeks to make visible an insurgent female sexuality. A sexuality that is neither passive nor lascivious nor advertising.

With this project I became my own Carrie from Sex and the City, asking myself question after question:

  • If I sleep with him will he respect me? Will he want to see me again?
  • Should I pay for myself even if I have much less money than him just to be sure he gets to know that I’m not using him?
  • If I was the BEST SEX of his life and he keeps on coming back to see me, why I’m the other woman and not his girlfriend?
  • Why even if I don’t like the sexual act I’m living, why do I still fake just to make sure the guy is happy?
  • Why if I talk about sexuality people judge me?
  • Why so many men consume sexuality as if it was a huge market and NOT a sentimental and physical need?
  • Why I’m ashamed to pay for sex and men don’t? Why I will never beg a man to fuck me and men will always beg me?
  • Why uknown men send me their dick pics in a massive attack on facebook?
  • Why a guy who liked me raped me to punish me for my guts and boldness?
  • Why if I talk too much about politics or economy, men are scared to fuck me?
  • Why if I look dumb and use my Russian accent, they get all aroused like I’m the beer they need to have after a long shift on a hot summer day?
  • Why SO MANY MEN are bad in bed?
  • Why men watch that much porn openly or in secret? Why they never have respect for the women they jerk off on?
  • Why my thinking disturbs so many men? Why they get angry on me?
  • Why MEN ARE ASHAMED of their sexual needs?
  • Why men PAY FOR SEX? What do they need?
  • Why sex makes me feel bad, dirty and sad? Even if I love the guy?
  • Why men always want to make me SHUT THE FUCK UP and PUT THEIR DICK IN MY MOUTH?
  • Why smart women fuck dumb men?
  • Why I defend women that much? Why it became my life mission?

Asking too many questions is not a TURN ON.

Sadly, most of the men I interviewed who were clients (the ugly truth is that those men are your fathers, your brothers, your oncles, your boyfriends, your husbands and your sons) used sex just to make sure that their woman still remembers her social position: just a female who needs to be fucked and who will be fucked. Orgasms didn’t really matter. If the woman can fake them or even squirt a bit, it’s more than enough for any man to feel like *Bitch, he’s the MAN*.

art 1

Artist: Chahaya Saleha

Waiting for a REVOLUTION

What « SEXTREMISM » is about?

ICON ME

Artist: Oksana Schachko

Sextremism is a real-time women’s rebellion. Happening NOW. It is a suicide. To be born again. Sextremists never follow the rules. Especially, the sexual rules.

First, it’s a way to MOCK patriarchy.

Second, it’s a way to RUIN all the phallocratic rituals.

Third, it’s a way to PICTURE out a scandal.

Fourth, it’s a way to BECOME a «slut» they hate so bad: the ONE they want to fuck.

Fifth, it’s a way to APPEAR as YOU really ARE.

It is just A WAY… for the FUTURE.

Being a sextremist is being a Truth Seeker.

Maybe we will not start this revolution… but! We will do everything we can to help people SEE the real face of society. A face that is saying that it wants to help us… but! Puts a knife in our backs the moment we turn around. We will take off the masks of those who want to fool us.We are here to inspire and to encourage other women to start a revolution.

We have to warn you that this revolution will not be a non-violent one.It will be like any other revolution. There will be victims. Maybe we’re gonna be the first attacked. Actually, we already are. History shows to us that revolutions are always very bloody.

We think that after this revolution, women will take back the power they lost during Inquisition Times.

When society was burning women without any reason except saying :”She’s a witch!”

(More information here: https://www.nfb.ca/film/burning_times/)

We are the granddaughters of the witches who were burned at the stake.

We believe in a society that will not oppress women sexually, juridically, financially.

We believe that we will live for a certain period of time in a more balanced society.

We believe that women will eventually take the power in their hands.

We hope that women will not forget all the years of modern slavery they went threw.

We hope that they will not put men in the same conditions.

We hope that women will be more wise.

We want women to start an equal society.

As women, we’re in such deep shit right now, that we have no time to wait.

We need to rise up and to stand up from our knees.

We need to fight for what we BELIEVE and what we DESIRE.

For ourselves and for our children.

Unfortunately, the present order in society doesn’t think. About the future. About it’s children. About our nature. About the people.

TIME IS NOW. REVOLUTION IS COMING.